Avremi G., a father who lost his daughter to a severe eating disorder, once shared how helpless families can feel: You’re faced with this scary, exhausting situation and just need someone to take over. Without a dedicated advocate, families struggle to connect the dots, risking gaps in treatment that can have serious consequences.

When Sarah*, a devoted wife and mother in Monsey, reached out to us for support, she described a daily struggle that had become almost unbearable. She loved her family and was an accomplished hostess, yet she had difficulty eating.

It’s Chanukah and the holiday season—a time to gather with loved ones. During these moments, we may notice someone close to us is struggling, particularly with an eating disorder. Supporting them requires sensitivity and care. Here are some ways to help:

At B’Shalom Center, we believe that healing from eating disorders involves more than just addressing physical symptoms—it’s about achieving inner harmony and peace. The Jewish teachings on "Padah Veshalom Nafshi"—"My soul was redeemed with peace"—offer a profound framework for understanding this process.

A question I am often asked is, “How do I know if I or my child has an eating disorder”?

When discussing what classifies an eating disorder, it is essential to consider the following key points:

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I’ve been struggling with disordered eating and feel lost and alone. How can I address this while staying true to my Jewish values, considering all the complications it adds to an already difficult situation?

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I feel like I'm losing myself in the yeshiva system. How can I live my own life while keeping all the things my parents and teachers want from me?

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With the Yom Tov season approaching, I’m feeling overwhelmed by the preparations and expectations. How can I manage my stress while staying connected to the spirituality of this time of year?